How To Put The World At Your Feet (Episode 14)

Dr park
I have been through and felt with a lot of demands in my life but I fought hard and got away from them. Now I watch my children fight demands I never dreamed of. I have been beat,I have slept in my car with one child many a nights, I have been married more than once, lived with a drug dealer and fought my way out of that,married a man that beat me every day morning and Night I fought my way out of that, lived alone with three children and made a great life met the most awesome man in the world lived with him for nine years,married him was married for 15 yrs I lost him last December. I am living one day at a time and I know I am gonna I’ve ok only because Jackie wanted me to be. I miss him more than anyone will ever know but I made him a promise that I would be strong and not let my children (which he help raise) pull me down or take advantage of me or take what little I have left. I know I am going to be ok but it my children that are fighting the demands of this world now the meth the drug that has taken so many people’s lives and turned them into strangers. I have a child that has left 4 children with Yes mother she lives here and there, I have offered to take her to work and pick her up from work only if she would get a job and try to get her life back on track and she don’t want that she just wants to live the way she is living.
She has 2 thirteen year olds and 2 three year olds. I can’t understand how a mother can walk out of their children’s lives and not look back. I never left my children behind during my hardships in life I just can’t understand why she would walk away from them and not look back. How do I help her? What do I do to make her see they need her? I have tried everything to try to get her back to reality as I call it. Just thought you might have some suggestions of some kind. Sorry I rambled too much.
I am just trying to figure out how to help her,she just don’t seem to care anymore. Any suggestions???🤷‍♀️ I take whatever you got I am at my wits end don’t know what to do from here🙏